Interview with Mistress Valkyrie

 

Can you present yourself ? (where is your dungeon, how would you describe yourself physically and mentally)

Are you a bitch ?

My name is Mistress Valkyrie, Sublime Lady of OWK. I was born in The Czechoslovakia in 70’s and I live in England, Northampton in now days.

My dungeon is situated in my house in Northampton but I do hire out another dungeon, which is in Docklands, London.

It’s always a bit difficult to describe myself. That’s a job for my slaves. I believe that they could tell you a lot of interesting things about myself.

Anyway If I really must describe myself ;) I would definitely use the word bitch, but I’m the bitch with warm heart. If you don’t make me feel angry, set or disrespected you are safe but don’t you dare play dirty games with me, than I show you no mercy.

I’m woman of extremes I guess. I can be very demanding, strict and sometimes quite cold but when I develop certain special connection with people I become carrying, understanding and opened.

My slaves know that I consider myself as a human being therefore I’m allowed of mistakes and misjudgements. On the other hand I’m very hard to myself, so I’m trying to avoid making mistakes and always taking responsibility for my actions. I do even have a sense of humour, which is very important to me.

1/ How did you become interested in SM ?

I become interested in SM play with out knowing that it’s called SM play. I’ve learnt a lot from my brothers, who I use to fight and spend a lot of time with.

I had to always catch up with men environment as I was brought up as the last son of my strict Slovakian father.

I enjoyed overpowering my brothers or their friends since I remember.

It was very natural to me play dirty games with them and be snaky. Yeah I’m sure they did call me a bitch a few times in my life. Ohh bless them

Anyway when I started more seriously looking for definitions and answers to my questions, I was about 15 and I discovered SM magazines.

My brothers got one accidentally and I found it all very exciting and intriguing.

They journey of exploration started round that time then.

Why ?

I just found it very stimulating. I spent hours in my fantasyland of domina. It was mind blowing to think of all forbidden scenarios. Anyway it was all lock in my head. I could never talk about my thoughts or intimate feelings with my parents or even close friends. I didn’t think they would understand.

2) Can you tell us about your first dominatrix experiences ?

Well my first practical experiences were born with my first boyfriend. We started practising SM play, but he wasn’t interested in it for longer period of time. I felt that he is more into normal sexual practices, so I couldn’t even appreciate him trying.

If I’m thinking about it more deeply it wasn’t at all that simple to find someone with similar interest. The internet in the Czech republic after our revolution in 1989, was quite expensive, so the only way of finding SM “friends” was trough the magazine adverts or accidentally by talking to people.

Again it was a bit strange to ask people in the pub or restaurant “ hey, are you a sub or dom?”

Anyway I was leaving my life in vanilla land and it did bring me some serious problems with my conscience. I felt like I’m coming from different planet and have been dropped off on the Earth by some aliens.

In 2001 I finished my studies of Economy & Accountancy and was working for a French company in the central Prague. The job was great but again, people were causing me problem. So I decided to travel, go abroad and learn English.

The easiest option was England.

4 years ago Mistress Valkyrie becomes an au pair. What an irony of life. This bad experience of slavery made me understand that my nature is very much opposite to the slave attitude. I hated not being able to breath freely, go out, say what I think etc.

in 5 months I was living in the town Northampton where I met my husband Master El Diablo. He showed me how to be honest with out fear.

He told me about his experience with female slave and his general interest in BDSM. I fell in love and I was able to try being a slave girlfriend for him.

Despite of my trying I found myself arguing and saying NO too far to often for a slave girl. So I gave up on that eventually. I had to admit that it’s not my real nature to be a slave. I hate being controlled and can easily suffocated by other people. I do value my freedom and opened mind the most.

We bought the PC and started chatting to people. It become ever so boring talking to vanilla people, so we started searching for BDMS chat rooms and web sites. My husband started building my web site 2.5 years ago.

I was learning every day more and more about submissive attitude, masochism, domination, SM practices etc. It was like throwing a fish in to the fresh water.

My first real time pro-domme session was with a masochist.

So I ended up whipping, canning the slave as hard as I could manage. I experienced for the first time a needle play, cutting and anal play.

Basically my first session was my biggest and fastest lesson of BDMS in my life. My emotions after the session were very mixed up but the biggest surprise was for me, that I’ve enjoyed the session very much and I found it all very natural and highly stimulating.

3) How did your parents react ? What kind of family do you come from ?

I come from a Catholic family with strict rules and discipline background.

What a surprise huh? ;) Not really, look at Madonna or some other famous people, they all come from strict Catholic background.

I was very careful with presenting my new lifestyle to my parents and rest of the family.

No they weren’t amused at all. My mother got very upset after she discovered a riding crop and some of my outfits from leather and rubber in my suitcase during one of my visits.

My older brother doesn’t talk to me anymore after he seen my web site and my dad is not very happy about what his daughter does for living, but he is trying to accept it as he loves me after all.

4) When and why did you come to London? Why did you decide to have a Dungeon in Northampton ?

I never lift in London. I came to Northampton as an au pair as I’ve mentioned already and since then living in Northampton.

Do you go to Czech republic to make domination sessions?

I do go to the Czech Republic quite often as we bought a mill 2.5hrs. from Prague. We are in the process of doing it up at the moment. The mill has got foundations from 17 century and it’s situated in beautiful countryside.

I would love to lead my slave trainings from there, hold summer parties for fem domme funs and Gor club funs, organize tour to Prague and some other interesting towns and places in CZ etc. Madame Sarka and Madame Christine of OWK will be using the mill for their domination.

I did always enjoy training my slave Daniel in the OWK last year.

5) Have you ever been a slave or a masochist yourself?

I have explained my slave experience above.

A masochist .. hmmm I don’t think I’m a masochist but as I did experience some amount of pain, I do have a great understanding for masochist.

It does bring to body and specially mind an adrenaline, which transforms into positive mood, release similar to orgasm and marks, which are reminding us every time we look into the mirror what we took. So there is a great amount of pride and happiness coming with it.

6) What kind of SM interest you ?

It’s another difficult question. I love variety. I do enjoy from mild domination-feet worship, tie and tease to general slave training, corporal punishment, anal play, sensory deprivation, bondage, interrogation scenarios, needle play, cock and ball torture etc.

7) What are your favorite plays ?

my favourites are– needle play, interrogation scenes, bondage, slave training

8) What are your favorite instruments ?

My hands, voice, sensations

9) Can you describe your lifestyle ?

My life style is my freedom, opened mind, lots of responsibility on lots of different levels, exploration, learning about the others and myself every single day,

Do you have animals? What is your usual schedule in a day and in a Night?

No I don’t have any animals. In my house is no space for them but hopefully one day I’ll get a dog and maybe even horse. Is there anybody, who wants to give me a farm in South France? ;)

I don’t have any usual schedule.

Every day is very different. If I would have to make a list of things I have to do while I’m in my home in Northampton, so that would be checking my e-mails and answering them, checking my web site and updating it if it’s needed, sorting out my schedule for the day, having sessions, writing, doing research on the internet, chatting to slaves and friends Mistresses on line.

I go to swim once a week and I’m trying to do exercise every evening in my dungeon. Horse riding is also great fun.

Weekends are again quite different. I’m trying to find some interesting venue I want to see on Friday or Saturday night.

I’m resident Mistress Of Club Wicked in London; therefore I do attend a lot of their venues.

10) Do you live with someone? Is he ok with your dominatrix lifestyle?

Yes I live with my husband Master El Diablo

Can you imagine that he wouldn’t agree with my lifestyle? It’s 24/7 lifestyle not just a hobby, so yes he is ok with my lifestyle. He is rather active on the BDSM scene himself. I’m happy that he supports my activities and he also looks after my member’s site and technically supports my web site.

My partner took 90% of my photographs. He is a personal photographer of Madame Sarka, Madame Christine, Madame C and Empress Victoria. El is very good Master to his property slave C.

11) What kind of man do you find attractive ? What do you expect from a man ?

The biggest bonus of man is a sense of humour, charisma, responsibility, intelligence, understanding and confidence.

Well I do have different expectations from my partner or my male slave of course, but the description above applies to men in general.

12) What kind of women do you find attractive ? What’s your ideal of beauty ?

I admire natural beauty, sense of humour, grace and intelligence. When I was asked who I found a goddess of beauty I usually said Catherine Deneuve as she popped into my head as the first. She looks so natural, graceful and intelligent. Shame I don’t know her personally. Another French woman I admire is Sophie Marso.

13) What kind of attitude, body, eye glance must you have to put life to Valkyrie ?

 Valkyrie is a warrior, so she does demand a lot of strength, confidence and naturally powerful beauty. Valkyrie is a challenge, which is not easy to handle sometimes.

14/ Are you fetichist ? What are your fetishes ?

Yes I love leather and period costumes

15/ What is a good dominatrix ?

It’s very individual title “ a good dominatrix” – I guess good dominatrix must know and therefore appreciate what is on the other side. She should know how pain, humiliation and pleasure feel. She should be a strict and demanding teacher, understanding friend, tease full diva, a good psychologist.

16) What is a good slave/submissive?

Good slave, don’t you have any more difficult questions for me?

Firstly slave label is different to submissive label.

Slave in my eyes has no possessions, no rights, no opinion and no power over his/her life.

The owner does take care of all above and it does really depend on the Master or Mistress what will allow the slave to have on material, physical and emotional level.

Submissive is a person who likes giving and takes pleasure form pleasing other people.

I think to be a good submissive is demanding but not unrealistic. Being a slave especially to Mistress Valkyrie is almost impossible.

I do have a few regular subs who are trying to be my slaves, but they live partly in vanilla land and partly in our BDSM world under my wing.

I do own two slaves – slave ½ gimp and slave hracka. They have been serving me for more then 18 months and they both have been collard this year. My regular slaves are very close to me and I hope they can all feel it.

I’m trying to be here for them when ever they feel down or they doubting themselves or world. I’ve managed to create very special, individual and friendly relationships, when I can rely on the subs and they can rely on me.

They can be themselves around me but they always have to be honest, respectful and do their best for myself as well as for themselves.

17) If you were an animal, which one would you be?

Definitely a bird. I would love to fly and see different countries. It would be great to fly to Africa in the winter and back to Czech republic or Italy in Summer.

18) If you were a flower (or a plant), which one would you be?

I wouldn’t like to be a flower that would be too submissive role for me but I guess I would make a good cactus.

19) What would you like to be made of?

People telling me that I’m made of stone, so I guess nice fresh flash covered by skin would do

20) What’s your favorite sentence OR If your life was a movie, what would the title be ?

 Water and fire

Simply that’s how I feel most of the time.

Pretty extreme huh?